“I am humbled and honored to wake up every day and say, ‘I get to live this life.’” Kelly Towles and his wife Virginia Arrisueño are sitting together at their massive wooden kitchen table, the anchor of their charming brownstone’s lower level. He speaks with conviction, one hand petting their Siberian Husky pup Sinchi and… Read more »
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URBAN ADULTING. A few weeks ago, I was sitting with my production designer and dear friend Claire Smalley completing a brainstorming exercise. A former art director, she was coaching me to communicate all of the feelings I wanted our March // April cover to evoke. What did adulting mean to me? Why did I choose artist Kelly Towles and entrepreneur Virginia Arrisueño as my cover subjects? How did I want to reach my readers this month? First of all, it was really fun to be interviewed by a collaborator and think through my creative decisions through a new lens (thanks, Claire!) and secondly, when I shared all my thoughts with her, she responded with, “Got it! We’re funkifying the white picket fence.” And while I couldn’t quite justify that as the main teaser for the cover, I loved the sentiment behind it. That’s exactly what I want for this issue: to highlight the urban adult, someone who is equal parts invested in their career and creative outlets as they are in their family and domestic life.
My team took a deep dive into every aspect of modern adulting we could think of: parenthood (this includes pets and plants, for those not ready to procreate), designing your space, home ownership, financial planning, dating, relationships and everything in-between. I had the great privilege of sitting down with Towles and Arrisueño in their stunning Adams Morgan brownstone to pick their brains about the balance they strike between their careers in creative industries and their fierce commitment to a thriving family life with their son Atticus and pup Sinchi.
My managing editor Andrew J. Williams III rounded up 11 local couples redefining the modern relationship and interviewed a pair of dating experts. Editorial assistant Nicole Schaller chatted with financial analysts about making money moves; Rina Rapuano wrote about navigating home ownership; Nevin Martell shared a fresh perspective on the city as a parent; Brandon Wetherbee gave pro tips for enjoying the best kid-friendly breweries; Jade Womack rounded up pet-friendly locales; Courtney Sexton delved into responsible pet ownership; Alex Thompson shared her experience staying fit and connected to her husband post-baby; Abi Newhouse interviewed a design expert to get the scoop on beautifying your surroundings; Whitney Pipkin opened up about facing a fear of baking with her kids thanks to a sourdough starter kit; and my girl Claire nerded out over her green thumb.
Plus, we interviewed artist and educator Blu Murphy; Chef Jonathan Bethony of Seylou Bakery; Astro Lab’s Emma Whelan; Helen Hayes Award-winning actress Billie Krishawn; and Mosaic Theater Company’s new artistic director, Reginald L. Douglas. And last but not least, we provide an inside look at the DC Tattoo Expo, the Wammies, badass women business owners to support during Women’s History Month and much more. Let us know what you think of our first adulting issue, and thanks for reading!
Monica Alford
Editor-in-Chief
FEATURED
A Fresh Perspective: How Parenthood Helped One Dad Discover D.C. In a Whole New Way
My adult life has two distinct phases: Before Zephyr (BZ) and After Zephyr (AZ). Our son arrived on a cloudy, crisp Friday at the start of 2013. One minute I was a husband, a son, a brother, a friend — just a guy, really. The next I was a dad, a role that immediately felt… Read more »
Your Guide to Dog-Friendly D.C.
Check out our recs on adventure spots, bars, shopping locations and more — all perfect for a day out with your pup.
EAT
Against the Grain: Seylou Bakery’s Sustainable Bread-Making Revolution
Walking into Seylou Bakery in Shaw, the first thing you’ll notice — aside from the alluring pastry case and loaves of bread on shelves behind it — are the giant bags of locally-sourced whole grains stacked right in front of the entrance. Owner and baker Jonathan Bethony confirms these sacks are not there by accident…. Read more »
Marcelle Afram + Joyce Miller Empower Each Other to Grow
This month, we’re bowing to 11 badass local couples making moves (with righteous intent) and leaving their mark on the District. Among several questions, we ask how they’d remix the concept of power couple. What emerged is a collective belief that the energy you bring, the responsibility you share (to each other and your community),… Read more »
Baking My Way Into Their Little Hearts
I was not thinking of my children when I drove to a District chef’s house to grab a sourdough starter from her front porch cooler in the peak-pandemic spring of 2020. Rather, the drive sounded like a great excuse to escape what had become a Groundhog Day of togetherness. It was all I could manage… Read more »
DRINK
The Future of Beer is Female with Astro Lab Brewing
In 1961, the United States Brewing Association ran a series of ads aimed at “normalizing” the consumption of beer for women. The ad, reminiscent of something you’d see Don Draper propose in “Mad Men” over an extra-dry martini, featured two stereotypical mid-century homemakers enjoying what appears to be a tall glass of sparkling pilsner with… Read more »
AJ Johnson + Sarah McCreary are the Queens of the (Movie) Double Feature
This month, we’re bowing to 11 badass local couples making moves (with righteous intent) and leaving their mark on the District. Among several questions, we ask how they’d remix the concept of power couple. What emerged is a collective belief that the energy you bring, the responsibility you share (to each other and your community),… Read more »
Rach Pike + Jo McDaniel Groove to Sappy Love Songs
This month, we’re bowing to 11 badass local couples making moves (with righteous intent) and leaving their mark on the District. Among several questions, we ask how they’d remix the concept of power couple. What emerged is a collective belief that the energy you bring, the responsibility you share (to each other and your community),… Read more »
MORE DRINK
The Family Guide to Local Breweries
If they didn’t want us there, they wouldn’t offer Goldfish crackers. Before I was a parent, I frequented bars and I rarely saw families there. After becoming a parent, I rarely frequent bars. Instead, I regularly visit breweries. More often than not, there are more families present than people of legal drinking age. Do breweries… Read more »
MUSIC
Wammie Awards Applaud Artistic Pulse of D.C.
For more recent Wammie’s coverage, click here. In the District, local artists are the pulse of the city’s many musical subcultures — from genre-bending R&B to indie-pop to punk rock. For residents raised in the DMV, recognition for the artistic expression that thrives among the politics and commerce of the nation’s capital legitimizes the music… Read more »
DJ Lemz + Stuart Parlier Vibe to Kylie Minogue
This month, we’re bowing to 11 badass local couples making moves (with righteous intent) and leaving their mark on the District. Among several questions, we ask how they’d remix the concept of power couple. What emerged is a collective belief that the energy you bring, the responsibility you share (to each other and your community),… Read more »
CULTURE
I Am Art: Artist + Educator Blu Murphy Talks Teaching Philosophy + New Exhibit
With that simple but powerful phrase “I am art,” educator and artist Blu Murphy empowers and emboldens the art and lives of her students at Perry Street Preparatory Public Charter School in Brookland where she has taught for the last four years. Recruited by Principal Rachel Crouch with whom she previously worked with at Cesar… Read more »
Feminism, History + Tourism: 16 Places to Celebrate D.C.’s Badass Women
Women’s History Month is a conflicting time for historians. The challenge is to celebrate women’s accomplishments while simultaneously reminding the public that the female experience is mostly overlooked and marginalized in mainstream narratives. Fortunately, here in the nation’s capital modern-day feminists are centering women’s history and weaving stories from the past into everyday life and… Read more »
Get Inked: DC Tattoo Expo Returns
Spring is synonymous with renewal and in 2022, the sentiment could not be truer as an influx of events return from a two-year pandemic hibernation. For tattoo artists and enthusiasts in the DMV, the DC Tattoo Expo, slated for March 25 to 27, is a long-awaited return. “This will actually be my second time going,”… Read more »
MORE CULTURE
Actor, Healer + Storyteller: Billie Krishawn Amplifies Black Voices
An artist is defined by their voice — a unique point of view that governs the art they create. Actor, activist, writer and photographer Billie Krishawn has dedicated her life to honing her voice and translating it through multiple mediums with the same end goal: to heal her community. “As a woman of color, I… Read more »
Reginald Douglas: Back Home + On the Move
“In a new house, in a new place, if you change / Keep moving, keep moving,” goes a single by the band Jungle. Reginald Douglas has kept the song, “Keep Moving,” on repeat during early 2022 and seeing what draws the 35-year-old theatremaker to it is easy. Since graduating from Georgetown in 2009, he has… Read more »
Zsudayka Nzinga + James Terrell Paint in the Language of Love
This month, we’re bowing to 11 badass local couples making moves (with righteous intent) and leaving their mark on the District. Among several questions, we ask how they’d remix the concept of power couple. What emerged is a collective belief that the energy you bring, the responsibility you share (to each other and your community),… Read more »
LIFE
Making Money Moves: Advice to Start Financial Planning
Throughout my pre-college education, I learned about the Revolutionary War four separate times. How to organize my finances, balance a checkbook and invest? Zero. Although a fundamental part of becoming an independent stable adult, our education system fails to teach fiscal planning as part of the core curriculum. Once I graduated college and began to… Read more »
From House Broken to House Beautiful
Buying a home in the DMV can leave you feeling battered and bruised — even when you emerge victorious. It was March 2021 when we began to seriously consider selling our Columbia Heights rowhouse — our home of 16 years — in search of a place that felt more chill and offered a bigger yard…. Read more »
Nurturing Tips for New Plant Parents
Until five years ago, every plant I ever owned died. When I learned most house plants can live forever, I was determined to cultivate a green thumb. Now, after years of more than 40 plants and zero casualties, I want to share the most basic and helpful things I’ve learned about being a plant parent…. Read more »
MORE LIFE
Interior Designer Caroline Winkler’s Decorating Tips for Renters
On a break from work earlier this year, I sat in my apartment looking around at how nothing seemed to make sense in my design choices. I’d worked from home for years at that point — even before the pandemic started — and was increasingly annoyed at the space around me. It didn’t feel conducive… Read more »
Modern Romance in D.C. : The Joys + Pitfalls of Love in the Digital Age
Has dating evolved or is it the art of dating that’s evolved? It’s a fair but loaded inquiry. On a practical level, the traditional places we find love — bars, house parties, the workplace, weddings, blind dates, even sheer chance — remain. But the age of technology has given rise to dating apps, while changing… Read more »
Dogs Are People, Too
My late dog, Remy, had balls. I mean literally. And it was not uncommon for perfect strangers to stop us on the street, point to his groin and exclaim in horror (or at the very least complete confusion): “He isn’t neutered!” (Oh really? I didn’t notice…). When I engaged in these interactions people would always… Read more »
MORE LIFE
Dr. Kimberly Kong + Deke Dunne’s Mantra: “Don’t Be Shitty”
This month, we’re bowing to 11 badass local couples making moves (with righteous intent) and leaving their mark on the District. Among several questions, we ask how they’d remix the concept of power couple. What emerged is a collective belief that the energy you bring, the responsibility you share (to each other and your community),… Read more »
Dionna Dorsey Calloway + Donald Calloway Jr. Thrive on Finding Balance
This month, we’re bowing to 11 badass local couples making moves (with righteous intent) and leaving their mark on the District. Among several questions, we ask how they’d remix the concept of power couple. What emerged is a collective belief that the energy you bring, the responsibility you share (to each other and your community),… Read more »
Laurel Bray + Mason Anderson-Sweet Are Unapologetic Community Champions
It’s past time we remixed the entrepreneur archetype. The tried-and-true definition of an emerging or aspiring business owner feels tired. The modern entrepreneur is a mover, shaker and doer who’s not content with simply breaking all the rules. Our 52 trailblazers featured in the October issue are rewriting the rules, tearing them up and doing… Read more »
MORE LIFE
Cassie + Alexa are Limitless Dreamers
This month, we’re bowing to 11 badass local couples making moves (with righteous intent) and leaving their mark on the District. Among several questions, we ask how they’d remix the concept of power couple. What emerged is a collective belief that the energy you bring, the responsibility you share (to each other and your community),… Read more »
Jennifer Jean-Pierre + Jermaine Maull Believe in Unity Through Strength
This month, we’re bowing to 11 badass local couples making moves (with righteous intent) and leaving their mark on the District. Among several questions, we ask how they’d remix the concept of power couple. What emerged is a collective belief that the energy you bring, the responsibility you share (to each other and your community),… Read more »
James Beach + Caitlin O’Keeffe Tuttle Embrace the Chaos
This month, we’re bowing to 11 badass local couples making moves (with righteous intent) and leaving their mark on the District. Among several questions, we ask how they’d remix the concept of power couple. What emerged is a collective belief that the energy you bring, the responsibility you share (to each other and your community),… Read more »
PLAY
Welcome to the New Gym, Where Puppies + Babies Run Free
“Just make it to at least a minute,” I tell myself as I hold a plank. And then from my periphery, I can see my 15-month-old daughter Lily army crawling her way through the obstacle course of dumbbells and resistance bands scattered across the carpeted basement floor. She takes mere seconds to position her little… Read more »
How D.C.’s Bettors Can Get Their Heads in the Game for March Madness
There may not be much local flavor in this year’s NCAA Tournament, but that’s not going to stop throngs of college basketball fans from getting out in D.C. to experience the action. In fact, there could be more people playing hooky this year as legal sports gambling has taken on a larger role within the… Read more »
MORE PLAY
The Art of Adulting Crossword
One morning, upon waking up with back pain and a pounding headache from caffeine withdrawal, it hits you: You’ve officially reached adulthood. Bygone are the days of carefree McDonald’s runs and all-nighters. High school has been replaced with a nine to five and you don’t vibe with the Top 40 anymore. But you do have… Read more »
The Art of Adulting Crossword Answer Key
One morning, upon waking up with back pain and a pounding headache from caffeine withdrawal, it hits you: You’ve officially reached adulthood. Bygone are the days of carefree McDonald’s runs and all-nighters. High school has been replaced with a nine to five and you don’t vibe with the Top 40 anymore. But you do have… Read more »
Urban Adulting Illustration
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